So, hubby NEARLY said it..."YOU are going to have to face the fact that you can't take care of 5 horses." Well, first of all, I'm not taking care of them. I board them. He resents that. he resents the fact that I have 5 horses. He resents the horses. He hates them. Period. There. I said it. And, I know, deep down in my heart, that if something were to happen to me, they would be GONE in an instant! He will not support them AT ALL. Neither will our children, who are all non-horse people.
So, my blood pressure is up and I'm going for a drive.
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2 comments:
I'm sorry, it sounds as though he has no real understanding of what you love about the horses.
I have explicit directives in my will for my horses - maybe doing something like that would make you feel a little better?
I'm so sorry it's like that for you and your horses. We have too many horses, 6 for 2 people. It's expensive and a lot of work, but HOW could we not have some horses??? I cannot even imagine that! But...if you made provisions/plans for someone or someones to care for your horses in the event of your demise, wouldn't you feel more at peace? At least then, you'd have some assurance that they would be cared for after you're gone.
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