Desert Horses

Welcome to my horse blog, Desert Horses. We live in the desert southwest, near Palm Springs, CA, but board our horses up in our local mountains where it is cooler in the summer. I have 3 horses, all rescues. Here is the ranch up the mountains where the horses stay.

Wednesday, May 13, 2026

 Duck Wars

May 13, 2026

 

Not every year, and not every other year, but some years we get ducks visiting our front yard.   I’ve learned over time that they watch other birds and know where food and water is located.   I have plenty of feeders in the front yard as well as bowls of water, which I clean and refill daily as part of my chores routine.  I’ve been observing birds now for 10 years and I figured that they must be a successful species to have survived 65 million years, unlike us “newbies” to the world.

So, this year a mated pair of Mallards showed up one day.   The male can be quite vocal, so I now listen for his morning chatter.   They’ve been here over a month now and I expect them to be gone any day, since we are now in triple digits, but so far they appear every morning and late afternoon.   Mornings are reserved for eating birdseed and duck food pellets.   Afternoons are reserved for drinking water and dunking themselves into one of the large rubber water bowls that I had up at the horse ranch.   I love to observe the female.   She dunks her head into the water with pure abandon while the male stands guard.  He needs to stand guard because we have quite a few feral cats in the neighborhood who are always on the prowl for an extra meal.

This morning I heard frantic quacking, so I went out to see if maybe a coyote was around.   Nope.  There were three ducks instead of two!   An intruder?   YES!  And, it was another female.   The male got VERY UPSET, chased her into another neighbor’s yard and was quite rude to her.   His quacks could be heard all up and down the street.   He chased her down the street, he chased her into the neighbor’s yard, and he even flew after her in an attempt to rid her for good.   Nothing worked. 

She is now out front eating birdseed by herself.   The pair flew off in disgust.

Our local civic center park has large ponds and every fall the ducks and geese fly down here and some stay over the winter.  And, of course, the Salton Sea attracts many bird species.   I often hear the geese in the mornings since the park is only about ¼ mile away from our home.   I love to hear the geese and I look forward to them returning every year.

But, I always look out front first thing in the morning for the pair of ducks.   They fly in and land on the beautifully manicured lawn across the street, rest there, check for cats, and then waddle across to our yard for breakfast.  Since I’m already feeding various species of birds, I just add some birdseed and pellets for them and I check their water bowls.

Simple pleasures.

480 words

May , 2026

/cd

Tuesday, May 12, 2026

Snail mail letter clubs?

 

Snail mail clubs?

May 12, 2026

 

 

I’ve been searching online for a couple of snail mail clubs to join, but honestly, I’m ready to give up and just start my own.

First, most of them are too damn expensive.   I don’t want to spend $10 a month for a photocopied, typed letter, a couple of stickers, and a bookmark.  Oh, and maybe a postcard with “original art”.   I’m NOT an artist, so that doesn’t even appeal to me.

What I want is an interesting handwritten letter.   I DID find a couple of monthly samples that I ordered on Etsy and I’ll do a YouTube video of them when I receive them and I’ll let you know what I think of them.

I also restarted my account on Postcrossing (a postcard exchange website) because, well, I enjoyed seeing all the postal stamps from around the world and I DI make a few friends when I was doing this last year.   It’s just that international postage is now…SIT DOWN!...$1.70 each!  I asked for someone’s address yesterday and thankfully got a man in Indiana, so that was a regular postcard stamp which is $0.61, which seems outrageous.

Anyway, I’ve been searching on Instagram, YouTube, Google Search, and Etsy looking for a REASONABLY PRICED monthly snail mail subscription.   They seem to range from $8.00 a month to $11.00 upwards to $15.00.   That seems a LOT for a 79 cent stamp and some items thrown into an envelope.

I found one gal who sends out about 500 envelopes a month.   NO THANK YOU.   I would love to write to about 5 or 6 people, but that’s it.  I DO write the 5 grandkids weekly and I make some handmade cards for them, I throw in some stickers and a bookmark of two, but I hand write (or print) my letters.   None of this photocopied garbage!

What do you think?   Do you have any experience with a snail mail letter club?  I did get one letter a couple of years ago from some book club and it was garbage, so I cancelled that subscription.   I’m pretty picky.   If I’m going to pay $6.00 upward, I want some… QUALITY, not QUANTITY.  Let me know your thoughts.   And, let me know if you would like a handwritten letter from me.

382 words

May 12, 2026

/cd

 


Monday, May 11, 2026

Why don't people read physical books anymore?

 

Why don’t people read physical books anymore?

May 11, 2026


I have a little free/sharing  wooden two shelf library out in the front yard by the curb and NOBODY has been by for over two weeks.   I usually go out Saturday morning and refresh and replace books there, but lately it’s the same books there week after week after week.   I’m ready to give up.

I have advertised it on Instagram, on Facebook, You Tube, and even on our local “Buy Nothing” group.   MAYBE once a month someone will stop by, but lately it has just been crickets.

I actually began with two libraries:  one for adults and one for kids.   The kids one was one of the red plastic ones I bought on Amazon.   It was perfect for chapter books and smaller books for kids, but the larger ones never fit into it.  After a year of non-use, I cleaned it out, moved it to the front porch, and put my gardening supplies in it.  I just GAVE UP.I’ve spent HOURS and HOURS at the two libraries near me buying books, I’ve gone to bi-annual book sales, I’ve been to thrift stores buying books (see a pattern?) for this damn library and NOBODY EVER USES IT.

I give up.   If nobody comes by the first week of June, I’m going to have the son-in-law come and take it apart, cut off the post,  and I’ll bring it inside and use it as a spice rack.   I will admit defeat.

Don’t people READ BOOKS anymore?   I mean, I’ve put some great titles out there:   The Women, Chemistry Lessons, Where the Crawdads Sing, A Thousand Splendid Suns.   NOTHING.   Crickets and spider webs!   I have even bought books online through Amazon and Thrift books.   I constantly take photos of my shelves for people to see and NOBODY comes by.

I’m beginning to get it.  People want instant reads like ipads and Kindle.   I have a Kindle myself.   I never use it.  I was always one of those people who enjoyed having a book in hand. I loved the feel of a book, the texture of its pages.

Unfortunately, I’ve read some pretty BAD BOOKS lately.   I picked up a Dean Koontz book to read after reading “A Thousand Splendid Suns” to bring me back to reality.   And, I enjoyed it, so I picked up another one of his books which was just GARBAGE.   It was a complete waste of time. I hate and refuse to read fantasy books or romance fantasy books.   I don’t have time for that nonsense.  I’m not fond of books written in first person, but if it is well done, I’ll read it.

My TBR stack (to be read) is probably 100 books.   I’m going to go through them and cull them and donate them to one of the thrift stores in town.   I’ve already donated 91 books to one of the local libraries and I need to get rid of the piles in the living room.   So, that will probably be another 90 or so books GONE.   Poor hubby keeps stumbling over one pile of books, so I need to get them OUT!

I finally gave away ALL the kids’ books (mostly chapter books) because nobody was interested in them.   Yet, they’ll pay $2.99 each for them at thrift stores?   I don’t get it.

That spice cabinet is looking more and more appealing.

571 words

May 8, 2026

/cd

 

Sunday, May 10, 2026

Sunday photos from the front yard and Happy Mother's Day

I've decided to just post photos on Sundays.   I went out front yesterday and took a few.   There isn't much blooming right now, unfortunately, but I do have sunflowers, cosmos, and a few other flowers out back.  We had a heat streak in February which fried my California poppies and we are in a week-long triple temperature time right now. I never really had many flowers out front this year because we just didn't get the fall rains necessary.  

So, here goes:

Pretty bougainvilla.   This vine is about 30 years old and may need to come down next fall.

This is the wind spinner our daughter bought me last Mother's Day.

Pretty salvia.   The hummingbirds love this.

One of the bird feeders in the front yard.

A pair of Mallard ducks who have been visiting for about a month now.   They love the nicely manicured lawn across the street, but waddle over to our yard for meals.   They meet me in the mornings demanding food.   I have 2 bowls of water set up for them and they love to get their daily drink from them.   They are a cute couple.   He stands guard while she eats.   I'm always afraid a car will run over them, so if I see them, I keep an eye on them.   Now that the temps are 100+, they may take off for the year.


This is our almost one-year old kitten, Cassie, curled up in the front window in her sleeping spot.  She loves to get up there and watch all the birds out front!   One day I'll write out her story.   It's an interesting one.

HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!

Saturday, May 9, 2026

Thoughts on researching your ancestors

 

Ancestors

May 9, 2026

I’ve always been interested in genealogy. I started my interest when I began following thoroughbred race horses through the Los Angeles Times sports page as a kid.   I always went to the sports page first to view the previous day’s race results.

Now, to be honest, my parents’ home was about a mile and a half from the Santa Anita track, up in “The Rancho”.   The Rancho was mostly land once owned by Lucky Baldwin, of the LA County Arboretum fame and he was a horse owner.   In fact, one of my great uncles trained some of his horses and lived near the Hugo Reid adobe.   Another of my great-uncles was the personal assistant to Anita Baldwin and traveled with her all over the world.

But, I digress.

So, I followed race horses for YEARS.   My maternal grandfather, who lived less than a mile from Santa Anita, used to take me with him to watch the horses race in the afternoon.   I honestly don’t know how he got away with dragging a 10 year old girl with him, but he would place small $2.00 bets for me.   I often didn’t pick the winning horse, but I got pretty good at picking the horse for 2nd place (place).  I frequently came home with a good pile of winnings.

When pedigree query came onto the Internet, I was THERE!  I spent HOURS on my computer looking up horse pedigrees. I wouldn’t bet on a horse until I checked out his or her pedigree.   Sometimes this helped, often it didn’t.   The trainer made a huge difference. 

I remember seeing Native Diver run at Hollywood park.   My grandfather told me stories of Seabiscuit, Whirlaway, and Citation.  He actually took my mom and aunt to the track to see Seabiscuit run.   What days those would have been!

So, I’d been told stories about having ancestors in the Revolutionary War.   Both my mother and father picked out one ancestor to research and yup…found their lineages and followed them back to the war.  My mother’s ancestor was a 2nd generation Swiss immigrant family from Bern, Switzerland.  My father’s  ancestor that he traced (John Hickok) was a father who went off to war with his 16 year old son.   The father survived.   The son ended up as a British prisoner of war on a ship in New York harbor and didn’t return.

With the invention of the Internet, I was able to trace more of my ancestors, especially the ones on my dad’s side (the FEMALE LINES).   He completely ignored them.   I found them to be much more interesting than the dull, dry, boring Connecticut farmer males on his line!   And, they had ancestors who fought in both the French & Indian war and the Revolution!

I found one ancestor, on my mom’s side, who was a SPY for Francis Marion, the “Swamp Fox”!  Another was a fife for the Militia (fife=small flute).   Another one bred horses used by the militia and another one was a wagon master. I’ve found two who were in the War of 1812 and one who fought in the Civil War.

It takes TIME to do the research, but with all the information available these days on the Internet, it’s pretty easy to do. You’ll need to start with your ancestor’s full name and date of birth and go from there.   JUST be aware of other people with the same name as YOUR ancestor!   That’s why having a map and plotting their information on a map is useful.

I just have a couple of cautions:   BEWARE of Ancestry.com…I’ve seen a LOT of mistakes there.   People don’t live to be 200 years old and girls don’t have children at age 8.  So, I NEVER took notes on info from that website without having it confirmed from at least 2 other sites.   And, BE REASONABLE.  I ended up having a map on the wall in the hallway to trace where my families went.   It was a steady westward expansion, except for my dad’s male lines which remained in Connecticut.  The map also presented a visual representation of time and movement.  One of my cousins has a wife who is a professional genealogist, but I’ve never asked her for professional help.   She DID, however, send photos of the John Hickok house back in Connecticut which she and her husband visited,  as it is now a historical interest home.  (It’s an example of an early salt block style house.)

Don’t be afraid to write to other relatives.   Our son is actually doing the research on his dad’s lines and he’s found cousins all over the country!   Of course, he hasn’t done my lines yet…sigh…

I did write to a cousin back in Connecticut and he send me back a long letter full of family info.   And, since my father was the last male of his direct male line going back to 1632, I went looking for a male cousin with a possible DNA match and found one and he provided a lot of information before he passed. Some websites have forums where you can ask questions about your ancestors, too, and people will answer.

So, between all the resources that I used, I had a fairly good idea of who my ancestors were and where they came from.   Then the son started his own research and even took a DNA test, which confirmed my own findings.   But, I’m even a bit skeptical of those results, which don’t show any German ancestors on my side and I have TONS of them!   I’m not really sure how these companies map out their results, so just make sure their results back up your own independent research.

If you have any questions, please post them below as I check in daily.   I’m NOT an expert at family research, but I HAVE worked on mine for over 10 years now and I’m confident with my results, which, for the most part, have been confirmed through DNA testing, except for the German element!   Maybe they just lump that in with “Northwest Europe”?   And, I have a LOT of Norman ancestors which also didn’t show up on their map.   Anyway, right now Ancestry has a Mother’s Day special on DNA tests for only $29.99, if you are interested.

Until next time!

1054 words

/cd

 

 

 

Friday, May 8, 2026

Why don't appliances last anymore? 050826

 

Why don’t appliances last anymore?

May 8, 2026

I have a 20 year old set of Maytag washer and dryer and they are still going strong (fortunately).  I DREAD replacing them someday.  The dryer has had a local independent repair guy come a few times because the timer doesn’t work, so I just set our Alexa with an alarm to let me know when clothes are dry.   The washer has NEVER had any problems whatsoever.   They are NOT computerized models.

Our 21 year old Frigidaire finally gave out 2 years ago and we replaced it with a Whirlpool with an ice maker and water filter and we love it.   I wonder how long it will last?

Our stove/oven is also a Frigidaire and it is…15 years old?   I honestly don’t even remember.   It’s a gas model, as is our dryer.  

Honestly, some days I just take the sheets out to the illegal clothes line and let them dry in the sun.  And, yes, I LOVE the smell of freshly dried sheets from the clothesline.   Towels, not so much, as they always seem to be stiff.

The water heater is also about 15 years old.  I remember when the old one died and we found water all over the kitchen floor.   NOT FUN!

We don’t even use the dishwasher anymore.   Yes, it works, but it’s just the two of us, so we actually wash our dishes by hand.   I get a simple pleasure of standing at the kitchen sink and looking out into the back yard, watching the little finches at my dead sunflowers, stealing the seeds.

The air conditioner system is now 10 years old and OF COURSE, if it goes out, we will have to replace it.   We’ve been lucky so far this year when temps were below triple digits, but now that the summer heat is here, we are running it.  I miss having the windows and doors open and listening to the sounds of happy birds outside.

Last summer we had to have most of the roof over the house and garage replaced because the tree trimmers I hired to trim back a pine tree hanging over the bedroom dropped it onto the roof and broke and displaced 7 of the tiles on the tippy top.  So, I found a contractor who did the replacement of tiles work and actually the garage was in worse shape than the house roof, but all is fixed now.   I’m glad because now there is an “El Nino” forecast for next winter, which means more rain will be on the way.   So, we are ready for that.

Like us, our house is aging.  The son-in-law came by last summer and painted the main bathroom and I LOVE IT!   It’s so fresh and clean.   I can’t paint anymore and hubby has NEVER been a painter, so we are lucky to have a handy son-in-law.   I actually went out and fixed the side gate which had several missing boards and now it is presentable.   SOMEDAY I would love to have a new gate, but at least, for now, I can put up with this one and it is functional once again.

So, we limp along day by day and cross our fingers that nothing else goes out and we will make it through another brutal summer here in the desert.  The last few summers have been BRUTAL and this summer doesn’t look any better, so I will stay inside and sew tote bags and aprons and spend hours on my laptop.   I don’t read many books anymore.   I don’t know why, but I just can’t get into reading.   But, that’s a separate column.

Until next time.

613 words

May 8, 2026

/cd




Thursday, May 7, 2026

Why I'm not shopping at Whole Foods (2nd column) May 7, 2026

 

Why I’m not shopping at Whole Foods

May 7, 2026 (2nd column)

I’m boycotting Whole Foods.   This is the store that, when I saw they were coming to my town, I was one of the people at their entrance the very second they opened.   I’ve been shopping there now ever since on a bi, even tri-weekly basis.

But no more.

First, their prices are OUTRAGEOUS.   I can no longer afford to shop there.  Instead of buying their oranges (5 for $11.00), I bought a bag of 9 for $5.99 at COSTCO.  I’ve spotted some of the organic snacks at COSTCO, too, so I buy them there, too.

Second, their meat is GOD AWFUL!  Hubby, whose stepfather was a butcher back in Pennsylvania, ALWAYS complained about the quality of their meat. And, the men that work in their meat department are surly and sour.   They scowl.  Frankly, they’re RUDE.  So, I buy meat elsewhere, too.   Enough of that! I’m tired of having my selection(s) thrown across the counter at me. I was DONE with their meat department a LONG TIME AGO.

Third, half the time the stuff they have on special is out of stock.   HOW CONVENIENT!

Fourth, I’m sick and tired of supporting another damn billionaire who doesn’t care for us “common folk” while he parades around gala openings showing off his current wife.

Fifth, I plan on making my own salads AT HOME.   While I enjoyed making up my salad combinations at Whole Foods, I can make my own at home without it costing me $11.99 a pound!  I do enjoy their broccoli salad and I might get a small box of it every now and then, but other than that, I’ll be making mine at home.   Sometimes when I go there and actually look into their romaine salad mix, I see brown lettuce.  One time I saw the guy throw new stuff into the old lettuce container, stir it, and walk away.   How safe is THAT?

Sixth, while I love their little chicken tenders, I can also make those at home and I’ll actually know the ingredients that go into them.

Finally, just HOW SAFE are salad bars?  I’ve had stomach issues a few times that I’ve eaten food from the Whole Foods salad bar and frankly, I feel like I’m playing Russian roulette with my selections.   I KNOW how clean my kitchen is.   And, hubby is very firm on our kitchen cleaning routine (since he started working for Alpha Beta when he was 16 and saw first hand how to clean and sanitize one…)

So, my conclusion is that while there are certain items I might still run in and grab, my trips to Whole Foods will be a lot less frequent and a lot less expensive.  Especially in these days when the price of gasoline keeps going up!  The only good side to that is that we do have a hybrid and I usually only have to fill it up once a month, even though it requires the premium blend.

Until next time!

510 words

/cd